Moms Talk: Warding Off Homesickness

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This summer, many children in our area will get their first taste of independence at sleep away camp and possibly  their first experience with homesickness.

But parents don't have to feel helpless when homesickness strikes. The prescription for camper homesickness is a simple matter of preparation and patience. Here are some suggestions from the American Camp Association:

• facilitate opportunities for independence well in advance of camp time. Sleepovers at a friend's house can help simulate the camp experience.
• involve your child in the process of choosing a camp. The child may feel more comfortable if he owns the decision.
• try some role-playing exercises, acting out scenarios such as using a flashlight to find the bathroom.
• allow your child to take a personal item from home, such as a stuffed animal or other "lovey"
• when talking about the time away from home, be honest but positive. Say "I will miss you, but I know you're going to have a great time at camp."
• don't bribe your child with toys or other goodies. The reward will be your child's newfound confidence and independence!

And one tip from me, an anxious mom sending her two daughters to sleep away camp for the first time: Don't transfer your worries to your child. The more positive you are, the more secure your camper will feel!

How will you help your child with the camp experience this summer?