Mom's Talk: How Much is Too Much for a Kid's Birthday?

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This week's question comes from the Golden Gate Mother's Group:

My first son's birthday was chaotic and stressful. I organized the whole thing, decorated the place, and took care of everything. Even though I had it catered, I was still anxious the whole time. I want to just be able to enjoy both my sons' birthdays. I was thinking of hiring an event planner for my other son's birthday this fall, but is that too excessive? Even if it's just a small event? What do you do for your kids parties? Is there any way to make them less stressful and more enjoyable?