Parents Talk: How Do You Deal with Bullying?

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It's a tricky situation. Little Johnny comes home crying. He won't tell you what's wrong, just says some kids were mean. Finally, it comes out, two boys have been making fun of him every day on the bus, pushing him, and taking his lunchbox.

How do you respond? What do you do next?

One local mom said when she was faced with this situation recently, she was so mad, her first reaction was to march down to the other kid's house and tell him to Stop it! But, she realized that if she overreacted it would just make her son feel like he couldn't talk to her.

Long gone (we hope) are the days of dads telling their boys to toughen up, fight like a man, and show the bully who's boss. But, the delicate balance of teaching our kids to deal with their problems and recognizing that sometimes an adult has to step in still exists.

What would you do?

What if you find out your kid is the bully?

. Drawing on an experiences the kids have had in these classes or at events like can help them relate to each other and work through the problem on their own -- with your guidance.

It's important, as the adult, to know when bullying goes beyond simply playground teasing and your child's safety or well-being may be in jeopardy. And to try not to relive any experiences (unpleasant or otherwise) you may have had as a kid.