Stamford 'Singing Cop' Remembers Gene Wilder, Screen Legend

STAMFORD, CT — The ripple effect of Gene Wilder's death spans far beyond Hollywood, all the way to Brookfield, Connecticut where retired Stamford police officer Frank Chiafari remembers his dear friend and mentor fondly.

Gene Wilder best known for the beloved children's character "Willy Wonka" and movies as "The Producers," “Blazing Saddles” and “Young Frankenstein” passed away at his Stamford home on Monday at the age of 83 due to complications from Alzheimer's disease.

Wilder was married to comedienne Gilda Radner until her death from ovarian cancer in 1989. He married Karen Webb in 1991.

Frank Chiafari met Mr. Wilder in Stamford where he worked as a police officer. He said of his friend, "He was a pure gentle soul, with a loving spirit you could feel when you were next to him. He had no ego and would somehow make you feel like a star. I remember once I said to him, 'I am honored to have you as a friend,' and he answered back, 'It is I who am honored to have you as a friend.'"

Chiafari, a singer-wongwriter, credits Mr. Wilder for encouraging him to play music. "He believed in me and told me I should be playing music instead of police work. He was the person who got me my first gig," he said. Chiafari can be seen and heard playing regularly for charity events and at O'Connor's in Brookfield, often times with his daughters by his side.

His wife Teri Chiafari, a Brookfield Elementary School teacher, said Frank called Gene his guardian angel.

"Their friendship was priceless. What I adored most about Gene was that he's genuine. Money, fame, nor power has made its way to define him. He leads a simple life surrounded by the things he loves. His wife Karen [Webb], his family, his dogs and his home have always been his priority," she said.

Teri said that Mr. Wilder once gave Frank the best advice when he believed someone was taking advantage of Frank's kindness. He said, "Frank, stop being a professional schmuck."

Frank said he is grateful for all Mr. Wilder has done for him. "I will never forget you. Farewell my friend."

Photos courtesy of Frank and Teri Chiafari