Crime & Safety
Valley View: 'We Have a Plan' for Emergency Situations
Valley View School District 365U Superintendent James Mitchem gave advice to parents on how to discuss the Newtown elementary school shooting with their children.

Valley View School District 365U Superintendent James Mitchem posted the following letter on VVSD.org Friday:
To Valley View Parents, Guardians and Community Members:
We were deeply saddened to hear the news of the shooting at the Connecticut elementary school. Our thoughts are with the members of that community.
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Please know that the safety of our students in Valley View School District 365U is ALWAYS our top priority. We take seriously our responsibility to ensure the safety of our children every single day.
I would like to take this opportunity to remind everyone that we have a plan in place at each of our schools to handle emergency situations. We work with our local police and fire departments to prepare for these types of emergencies and regularly practice our safety procedures with students and staff through discussions and emergency exercises. Minor entrances in all of our buildings are kept closed and locked throughout the day, while access through major entrances is controlled through both locks and a check-in system.
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While no amount of planning can guarantee that a tragedy such as this will not occur, we are doing everything we can to keep students and staff safe while at school.
Our school social workers, counselors and administrators will be ready on Monday morning to respond to students as needed. But in the hours and days ahead, it will be important to spend time talking with your children and helping them cope with this news. I would like to share with you a list of tips from the National Association of School Psychologists about what parents can do at times like this:
1. Reassure children that they are safe. Emphasize that schools are very safe. Validate their feelings. Explain that all feelings are okay when a tragedy occurs. Let children talk about their feelings, help put them into perspective, and assist them in expressing these feelings appropriately.
2. Make time to talk. Let their questions be your guide as to how much information to provide. Be patient. Children and youth do not always talk about their feelings readily.
3. Keep your explanations developmentally appropriate.
- Early elementary school children need brief, simple information that should be balanced with reassurances that their school and homes are safe and that adults are there to protect them.
- Upper elementary and early middle school children will be more vocal in asking questions about whether they truly are safe and what is being done at their school. They may need assistance separating reality from fantasy. Discuss efforts of school and community leaders to provide safe schools.
- Upper middle school and high school students will have strong and varying opinions about the causes of violence in schools and society. They will share concrete suggestions about how to make school safer and how to prevent tragedies in society. Emphasize the role that students have in maintaining safe schools by following school safety guidelines communicating any personal safety concerns to school administrators, and accessing support for emotional needs.
4. Review safety procedures. This should include procedures and safeguards at school and at home. Help children identify at least one adult at school and in the community to whom they go if they feel threatened or at risk.
5. Observe children’s emotional state. Some children may not express their concerns verbally. Changes in behavior, appetite, and sleep patterns can indicate a child’s level of anxiety or discomfort. In most children, these symptoms will ease with reassurance and time. However, some children may be at risk for more intense reactions. Children who have had a past traumatic experience or personal loss, suffer from depression or other mental illness, or with special needs may be at greater risk for severe reactions than others. Seek the help of mental health professional if you are at all concerned.
6. Limit television viewing of these events. Limit television viewing and be aware if the television is on in common areas. Developmentally inappropriate information can cause anxiety or confusion, particularly in young children. Adults also need to be mindful of the content of conversations that they have with each other in front of children, even teenagers, and limit their exposure to vengeful, hateful, and angry comments that might be misunderstood.
7. Maintain a normal routine. Keeping to a regular schedule can be reassuring and promote physical health. Ensure that children get plenty of sleep, regular meals, and exercise. Encourage them to keep up with their schoolwork and extracurricular activities but don’t push them if they seem overwhelmed.
As parents, we are troubled by events like what occurred in Connecticut. However, something like this also provides us with the opportunity to be leaders as we help our children to understand, reminding them that, as the adults in their lives, we do everything we can to keep them safe.
Sincerely,
Dr. James Mitchem
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