The Sandwich Generation’s Long Game: When Downsizing Means Making Room for Everyone Else

If you think the “sandwich generation” stage of life ends once your kids graduate, think again. These days, more and more people in their 50s and 60s are juggling two generations of caregiving: helping adult kids navigate big life transitions while also stepping up for aging parents who need increasing levels of support.

It’s a lot. Emotionally, financially, logistically — all of it.

Many folks come to me thinking about downsizing simply because maintaining a larger home has become too much. But once we start talking, it’s clear the motivation often runs deeper. They’re looking for a layout that works better when Mom stays over after a doctor’s appointment. They want fewer stairs, less yardwork, and a space that doesn’t require a weekend’s worth of upkeep — because that weekend is already spoken for.

The truth is, this “in-between” season can last a long time, sometimes decades. And the emotional weight of caregiving while planning your own next chapter can feel overwhelming. The good news? There are options: homes and communities that make life simpler without sacrificing comfort or connection.

I’ve worked with many empty nesters who thought downsizing would feel like giving something up, only to discover it was the opposite — a huge exhale. Less space to manage means more energy for the people (and things) that matter most.

If you’re finding yourself in that same middle space — caring for loved ones above and below you on the family tree — you’re not alone. And if you’re starting to wonder what “right-sizing” might look like for your life today, I’d be happy to help you explore your options.

Let’s chat about how to make your next move one that lightens the load, not adds to it.

Laurie Christofano, Realtor with RE/MAX In The Village
Helping Chicago and near-west suburban buyers and sellers since 2007
laurie@OPRFhomesforsale.com | 630-248-1976
www.OPRFhomesforsale.com