Dads Talk Q&A

Welcome to Dads Talk Q&A, where dads help our Moms Council field some questions! This week's question:

More and more I am finding that I am Mr. Mom.  While I have a job that allows me to work from home, what can I do to get my wife more inspired to take on more parenting responsibilities?  Right now, while she is at work and even when she comes home, I do everything.  From getting the kids ready for school, helping with the homework, taking the kids to soccer practice, and following up on both teacher and doctor appointments - I’m starting to feel a bit overwhelmed.  Help!

Michael Tausch:

One of the things that I would recommend is that you take time to speak with your wife directly.  Let her know what’s on your mind and that you need her help.  She may be thinking that all is well if you are not saying any different.  Also consider making a schedule for the both of you to follow.  This may prove helpful.

Jimmy Davis:

I would sit down with your wife and tell her exactly how you are feeling. You can tell her that you absolutely love the fact that you can work from home, but that you are still working.  Also, you  could tell her that you need her to help with the kids. Communication is key, before this boils into a bigger problem. I think if you sit down with her and explain to her how you feel, she will no longer take advantage of the fact that since you are working at home, that you can take care of all of the home things that need to be done.