‘Infuriating': How A Silicon Valley Insider Got Away With EBay Scandal

San Jose Spotlight

February 7, 2024

For the first time since eBay faced a national scandal involving a horrific stalking campaign, the tech giant is formally admitting the involvement of company executives including a Silicon Valley insider — Steve Wymer.

The San Jose-based company last month entered into a deferred prosecution agreement — a deal granting eBay amnesty if it agrees to certain conditions and company changes — after facing six criminal charges including stalking, witness tampering and obstruction of justice. As part of the deal, eBay agreed to pay $3 million and formally admit the extent of the heinous scheme that unfolded under its roof.

Texts between Wymer, who worked as communications director, and other eBay employees in 2019 fueled a stalking and harassment campaign to silence a Massachusetts couple who published critical online posts about the company. They subscribed the couple to pornographic websites, installed a tracking device on their car and shipped them disturbing packages including a funeral wreath, a book about grieving a spouse, bloody pig masks and live spiders and cockroaches.

According to the agreement, Wymer directed employees on how to respond to the police when they were contacted and deleted text messages about the couple. Seven employees faced a slew of criminal charges and some went to prison for their role in the troubling scheme, except Wymer, who hasn’t faced any criminal charges for his involvement. The harassment campaign arose from communications between those executives and Wymer, authorities said.

With the new agreement, eBay is now admitting guilt and highlighting Wymer’s involvement. Wymer, a Willow Glen resident and business owner, did not return calls for comment.

Despite his role in the shocking plan, including sending texts that threatened to “crush” the blog’s author and saying he wants to “see ashes,” Wymer walked away from the harassment campaign almost unscathed. He landed a high-paying job as CEO of the Boys & Girls Club of Silicon Valley just a year after he was fired amid the scandal.

He enjoys a cozy relationship with Silicon Valley’s top political leaders and insiders — including former San Jose Mayor Sam Liccardo, who’s now running for Congress, and his successor Mayor Matt Mahan. Wymer worked for both mayors without pay and helped coordinate official schedules, arrange meetings at City Hall and recruit and interview employees, among other things. Both Mahan and Liccardo have defended him.

New evidence?

The targets of the harassment campaign, Ina and David Steiner, filed a civil lawsuit in 2021 against Wymer and other company leaders after federal prosecutors declined to charge them criminally. The case continues today.

Observers and insiders, including the Steiners, question how Wymer got out mostly unaffected.

Prosecutors said the evidence tying Wymer and two other executives who were not charged to the conspiracy was insufficient. But the Steiners believe the actions of Wymer and the others was no different from those who were charged.

“It’s the Steiners’ position that the conduct of Wymer is very similar to the conduct of the seven convicted defendants, because the seven convicted defendants got indicted for obstructing justice, destroying evidence, misleading an investigation,” Rosemary Scapicchio, the Steiners’ attorney, told San José Spotlight. “That’s all conduct that the Steiners believe should have resulted in an indictment against Wymer.”

The Steiners’ civil suit argues Wymer and former eBay CEO Davin Wenig gave employees free rein to destroy critical posts from the Steiners by whatever means necessary. The lawsuit mentions Wymer’s texts saying he would manage any fallout or negative consequences. A trial is set for March 2025.

“It’s executive deniability,” John Sims, a retired law professor at the University of the Pacific McGeorge School of Law, told San José Spotlight. “The people below you go to jail and you walk. It’s nice to be a boss. It’s infuriating.”

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