Ensure your child is ready for school

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Families often contemplate what they can do to boost their child’s readiness for school, especially during the summer. While it can be tempting to focus on discrete skills like math or reading, it is better to consider the concept of school readiness from a holistic perspective; emotional development and social competencies truly rank just as important as cognitive skills.

Educators agree. When surveyed about the importance of school readiness, teachers were unified in their feeling that children should enter their first years of school prepared for the social and emotional demands as well as an ability to comprehend broader language and math concepts.

A key component of social-emotional skills includes children’s ability to function independently. Children need to express needs and wants, share information, periodically wait, and thoughtfully ask and answer questions. Children also need to navigate their day self-sufficiently—such as visiting the cafeteria, using the bathroom, and boarding and riding the bus.

Preparing children with school readiness skills can easily be integrated into your daily happenings. Try adding some of these experiences into your day:

PARENT AND CHILD EMOTIONAL DEVELOPMENT ACTIVITIES

Write short notes to your child. Notes help children see that writing is a form of communication—it is a way to convey information and connects the alphabet to its larger purpose. Plus, teachers often use writing to share instructions and expectations. Try leaving notes for your child at the breakfast table. Keep your notes short and positive. For example, you could write, “Have a fun day. “ Or, “Today after school is the picnic.” Start by reading the note to your child and soon she will be reading it to you.

Guide your child to order his own food at a restaurant. Children in a school setting need to feel confident that they can ask for what they need. A school cafeteria is one place where children need to make selections and vocalize their opinions. In preparation, when eating out, coach your child until he feels comfortable ordering his own meal. If your child has a question about his order, encourage him to ask it. Your encouragement will help him gain the confidence to speak up. This communication skill will carry over into his daily experience in school.

Practice waiting. Waiting is hard. But it is also a fact of life. School settings often require children to wait their turn as the teacher assists others. Begin to integrate natural waiting time into your day. Start with a very short time and gradually increase as your child shows readiness. For example, if your child asks for assistance with a task, try saying, “I can help you in just a minute—let me finish here.” Be sure to follow through in the time frame you promised. Take your child along on errands that may require waiting, such as picking up a relative from the train, or waiting in the supermarket line. Talk to your child about strategies that help when you are waiting and acknowledge that it is not always an easy task. Avoid using an electronic device to help pass the time, as these are not a solution for your child in school.

These experiences may not be the first that come to your mind when thinking about school readiness. However, mastery of these skills boosts a child’s confidence and emotional readiness to enter a new school setting. Fortunately, these experiences are easy to practice during the course of one’s day and extend into lifelong social-emotional competency.

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