Obituary: Patrick John DeLillo, 61, Of Milford

Patrick John DeLillo, 61, of Milford, passed away on June 12, 2025. Born on May 17, 1964 in Queens, NY, to the late Vincent and Helen (Caiafa) DeLillo, he moved to CT in his 30’s.

A proud New Yorker to the core, Patrick was an avid sports fan. He cheered passionately for the Rangers, the Mets, and the Jets — through every win, loss, and unforgettable moment.

Patrick was also a man who found joy in the simple pleasures of life: time spent with his beloved dog Pixie, laughter shared with his closest friends — affectionately known as the “Casino Boys” — and every gathering filled with love, food, and spirited conversation from his big Italian family.

Pat is survived by his children, Kayla Westhoff, and Jordan Cobin (Sharon), and Donovan Hart, who was like a son to him; his grandchildren, Grayson and Kassian; siblings, Rosemary DeLillo, John DeLillo, and Louie (Sara) DeLillo; his aunt and uncle, Theresa and Louis D’Amato; his niece and nephews, Jessica (Bryan) Frinhani, and Jacob and Audrey DeLillo; and several great nieces and nephews. He shared a meaningful part of his life with Theresa Westhoff, the mother of Kayla and Donovan, and with Carrie DeLillo, mother of Jordan. In addition to his parents, Pat was predeceased by his nephew, Vincent, and his sister, Nancy Moody.

Friends and family are invited to gather on Monday, June 16, 2025 from 4pm to 8pm at CODY-WHITE FUNERAL SERVICE 107 N. Broad St., Milford, CT 06460. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, June 17, 2025 at 10:30am Saint Mary Church (Precious Blood Parish) 35 Gulf St., Milford, CT 06460 (MEET DIRECTLY AT CHURCH). Interment will follow at King’s Highway Cemetery 271 Cherry St., Milford, CT 06460.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly asks for donations to be made to The Kidney Foundation at kidney.org. To leave online condolences, please visit codywhitefuneralservice.com.