Crime & Safety

Spiteful Sex Video Creep Now Wanted For Violating Court Order: Cops

The jilted boyfriend allegedly sent a sex video to his former lover's father.

BOLINGBROOK, IL — A man already wanted for spreading around a sex video without his ex-girlfriend’s permission got himself in even more trouble by violating a protective court order, police said.

Nicholas Jocius, 31, remains at large. Prosecutors filed the felony sex video dissemination case against him three days ago.

Jocius was charged with violating a protective court order Friday.

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Jocius’ 36-year-old former girlfriend obtained a protective order against him on Monday. In her petition for the order, she accused Jocius of sending a video of them having sex to her father.

The girlfriend said she broke up with Jocius three months ago. Last week, she said, he called and texted her, threatening to send the video to her father.

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“He sent me the video then said, ‘Who first your family or your friends?’” the woman said.

“He then sent me a screenshot showing me that he did in fact send my father the sex video,” she said.

Jocius also “laughed and sent a big smiley face,” she said.

“Nicholas then said, ‘Who is next? I am off today and this should be fun,’” the Bolingbrook woman said.

Three days after he sent the video to his ex-girlfriend’s father, Jocius texted and emailed her his apologies, the woman said. The following day, he called her father “to say he was sorry for sending him the sex video of me and Nicholas.”

The warrant for Jocius’ arrest on the sex video case carries a $10,000 bond. Bond information for his subsequent case was not available Friday.

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