When things go bad, we blame G-d. At least most of us do. Many times, all of our insecurities come out and we blame G-d and ourselves.
Rabbis who claim they know why a calamity befell a certain person or population need to get a grip on reality, IMHO. They rarely have the qualifications to know WHY something bad happened to SOMEONE ELSE.
If we find a reason for our own challenge, that is not based on insecurity but is a wake-up call to rectify a past mistake or to become a better person. That is good. If it is just letting our fears get to us... then we need to do it differently.
When good things happen, we often take credit for ourselves. But truly it is G-d who gave us the skill, the talent, the family, the opportunity, etc. to be able to make a change in the world.
From time to time, I hear "it's so amazing what you do..." The truth is, I am lucky. I have the honor and merit to be a Rabbi who lives in such a welcoming community. I grew up in an amazing family that trained me to be a community leader. I have teachers and friends that held my feet to the fire to force me to grow. I have G-d guiding me throughout!
We can think about all ">Being aware of all that G‑d does for us and thanking Him for it, helps us also be thankful for the people in our life. From the one who asks about your welfare to those who clear the snow to the heroes at the hospitals. Acknowledge them for it.
So blame G-d for the challenges in life, but don't forget to thank Him for the good in your life.
Researchers at the Mayo Clinic have found that feelings of thankfulness can help improve sleep, diminish fatigue, increase confidence and even lessen depression.
Do you feel grateful for the good things in your life?
