Here's What Age Kids Can Stay Home Alone In NJ

With school out for the summer, some New Jersey parents may be wondering if their kids are old enough to be left home alone when they go to work or run errands.

A majority of states don't have laws specifying the age at which children can be left home alone. In fact, New Jersey is among 37 states that leave it up to parents to determine if their kids are mature enough for this milestone, according to FindLaw.com.

Generally, 12 and older is "a pretty acceptable age," family therapist Sheryl Ziegler told TODAY.com, which is also the recommended range from the American Academy of Pediatrics.

In the end, however, it depends on the child and how ready they are for the responsibility of staying home alone. Here is what parents should consider before making a decision, according to FindLaw.com

How to Know If a Child Is Ready to Stay at Home Alone

Before leaving a child home alone for an extended period, a parent or caretaker should consider the following:

• The age and maturity level of the child
• The length of time the child will need to stay home alone
• Whether the child works well independently and follows directions
• The age and number of older or younger siblings being left at home
• The safety of the surrounding neighborhood
• The willingness of neighbors or babysitters to check in with the child during the day
• Whether the child would feel safe staying home alone
• Whether the child needs special attention for disabilities or mental health issues
• Their overall comfort level with letting a child stay home alone

Safety Tips For Leaving Your Child At Home

If you need to leave kids home alone, at least where older children are involved, you can follow these recommendations:

• Have the child memorize their full name, address and cell phone number.
• Post a list of emergency contacts or caregivers to call in the event of an emergency.
• Have a first aid kit readily available.
• Call the child several times during the day while you are away for the first time.
• Teach the child how to work the locks on windows and doors, and lock them at home.
• Tell the child not to enter other people’s homes (even neighbors) without your permission.
• Designate a "safe house" to run to if the child ever feels that they’re in danger.
• Never allow a child to work the oven or stove without a parent or adult caretaker.
• Consider programs offered by schools, organizations and churches as an alternative to leaving a child home alone for an extended period.

Getting Your Child Ready for Staying Home Alone

Preparing your child for staying home alone can help build their confidence and keep them safe. Here are some ways parents can help prepare their children:

1. Start with short timeframes: Start by leaving your child alone for brief periods, like when you’re running a quick errand. Slowly increase the time they spend alone as they get more comfortable with your absence.
2. Set clear rules: Talk with your child about the expected behavior, responsibilities and possible emergencies when they’re home alone. Make sure they understand the rules and boundaries.
3. Teach necessary skills: Make sure your child can complete basic tasks, such as making simple meals, using the phone for help and safely using household appliances.
4. Practice emergency situations: Act out different emergencies, like a fire or an unwanted visitor, with your child. Teach them the right actions to take and who to call for help.
5. Create routines: Develop a schedule for your child to follow while alone, including chores, homework and fun activities. This helps them stay organized and engaged.
6. Build a support system: Introduce your child to trusted neighbors, friends, or relatives nearby who can help if needed. Make sure your child knows how to contact these people in case of an emergency.
7. Encourage open communication: Keep talking with your child about their experiences and feelings about being home alone. Address their concerns or fears and provide reassurance.

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