School Mourns Beloved Mother, Coach, Teacher After Sudden Passing

SHOREHAM-WADING RIVER, NY — The Shoreham-Wading River school community is mourning the sudden and heartbreaking loss of a beloved teacher and coach.

Gerard W. Poole, Superintendent of Schools at the Shoreham-Wading River Central School District, sent a message to the school community Thursday.

"It is with deep sorrow and a heavy heart that we share the sudden passing of Adrian Gilmore, a beloved member of our school community. Adrian was not only a dedicated and passionate educator, but an outstanding coach, mentor and source of inspiration to many generations of SWR colleagues, families and students."

According to an earlier message sent out by district officials Tuesday, a staff member had a "medical emergency" after school hours at the Albert G. Prodell Middle School in East Shoreham.

Suffolk County Police said Seventh Precinct police officers responded to an aided case involving an adult outside at 100 Randall Road in East Shoreham on April 22 at 2:55 p.m. The person was transported by Rocky Point EMS to John T. Mather Hospital in Port Jefferson.

New 12 reported that students were present and witnessed the medical emergency. And, according to News 12, Gilmore tragically died two days later.

In his message, Poole added: "For 20 years, Adrian served as a dedicated educator, most recently teaching sixth grade with unwavering commitment and care. Over her time in SWR, she led our varsity soccer teams to county and state championships and earned multiple Coach of the Year awards, including recognition in 2019 as the United Soccer Coaches Regional High School Coach of the Year for the East Region. Adrian also previously coached lacrosse with the same dedication and excellence. She regularly coached community programs and involved her teams in community service, instilling values of giving back to countless individuals."

A GoFundMe page, "In Her Honor: Supporting a Devoted Mother, Teacher & Coach," has also been created by Charisse Jamroz. "Our family has suffered an unimaginable loss," she wrote. "Adrian Gilmore, a beloved wife, mother, daughter and sister, friend, teacher and coach, passed away unexpectedly, and she leaves behind her husband Tim Gilmore and their precious children, who are now walking a difficult road."

Jamroz added: "Adrian’s life was a beautiful reflection — full of grace, strength, and a deep love for others She poured her heart into everything she did, whether she was raising her children, nurturing her students, or guiding her athletes.

"Adrian wasn’t just a teacher in the classroom or a coach on the field; she was a mentor, a listener, and a light in so many lives. She believed in people, lifted them up, and encouraged them to be their best. At home, she was the heart of her family; faithful, selfless, and strong. Her absence is deeply felt by all who knew and loved her.

"Now, her husband Tim is walking through an unimaginable season, doing his best to care for their family while grieving this profound loss. We are coming together to support him and the children with funeral expenses, daily needs, and time to heal — emotionally, spiritually, and financially. We believe in the power of community and the comfort that comes through Christ. If you are able to give, know that your gift will help ease this burden. If you’re not able to give, please pray for Tim, Kayla, Cameron, Colby — for peace, strength, and moments of hope even in sorrow. Thank you for your compassion, your faith, and your love."

Poole added: "More than her impressive achievements, Adrian will be remembered as a mentor for other coaches and teachers, a passionate advocate for children and a trusted colleague whose impact reached far beyond school walls."

Poole said Gilmore was a bright light for her students. "Her legacy lives on in the countless lives that she touched as a teacher, coach and community leader. She will be profoundly missed by all who had the privilege of knowing her."

The district said they understand that the news may be especially difficult for students and staff, and said school counselors and support staff will remain available to provide care and assistance to anyone in need throughout the grieving process.

"Please do not hesitate to reach out to the district directly for any additional support," Poole said.

In addition, he added, the district will be honoring Gilmore in the coming days, "as we reflect and remember her legacy. In the meantime, please keep Adrian’s family and friends in your thoughts. Together, we will continue to support one another with compassion as we navigate this loss as a school community and school family."

To donate to the GoFundMe, click here.