Memorial Day Weekend 2023: Things To Do In Wantagh/Seaford

WANTAGH/SEAFORD, NY — The upcoming Memorial Day parades in Wantagh and Seaford are part of a nearly 160-year tradition that pays tribute to military personnel who lost their lives in service to their country.

The annual Seaford Memorial Day Parade starting on Merrick Road and ending at Seaford Middle School is the highlight of the three-day Memorial Day Weekend — May 27-29 this year.

The memorial service will follow the parade.

There is also a parade in Wantagh. It starts at 10 a.m. at the school on Beltagh Avenue. A memorial ceremony follows at the Wantagh American Legion.

As the observance has changed over the years, many families also use Memorial Day as an occasion to visit cemeteries and leave flowers at the graves of family members, regardless of whether they served in the military.

Memorial Day Weekend is also the unofficial kickoff to summer in Wantagh and Seaford. The Bethpage Air Show is back, with the US Air Force Thunderbirds leading the aerial demonstrations above Jones Beach.

The history of Memorial Day, originally called Decoration Day, dates back to 1868, when Gen. John A. Logan called for a day of remembrance to honor the Northern lives lost amid battle during the Civil War that had ended just a few years earlier, according to History.com. As time passed, more and more people called it Memorial Day, and it became a federal holiday in 1971.

Waterloo, New York, is considered the birthplace of Memorial Day. The town’s observance on May 5, 1866, predated Logan’s call for a day of remembrance. Local businesses closed and residents decorated the graves of fallen soldiers with flowers and flags.

Until World War I, the holiday honored only those soldiers who died while fighting for the Union in the War, as Southern states honored their war dead on a separate day. After the 116,000-plus American deaths in World War I, the tradition changed to remember all who have died while serving in the military.

Every year, a national moment of remembrance is held at 3 p.m. local time on Memorial Day. No matter where they are or what they’re doing, Americans are asked to pause for one minute in silence to remember military personnel who have given their lives in service to their country. According to the Department of Veterans Affairs, the midday time was chosen because it’s a time when many Americans will be enjoying their freedoms on a national holiday.