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Thomas Valva, Who Froze In Father's Garage, Mourned On Christmas Eve

"When I celebrate Jesus' birthday with him, it brings me peace, knowing he is at peace."

Christmas decorations were nestled amonth the flowers at Thomas' Valva's grave.
Christmas decorations were nestled amonth the flowers at Thomas' Valva's grave. (Courtesy Dina Marrazzo.)

CENTER MORICHES, NY — A Santa Claus and a festive red-and-white Santa hat were nestled on Christmas Eve amongst the angels and flowers that surround the grave of Thomas Valva, 8, whose father, ex-NYPD Officer Michael Valva, was sentenced recently to 25 years to life in prison after he was convicted of his son's murder.

Those whose lives were forever touched by his death, some who were at St. Charles Cemetery visiting the graves of their loved ones, made a pilgrimage to Thomas' grave in a show of solidarity and love.

Many were members of a Facebook page, "Take Action, Justice for Thomas,"who have followed the trial and found solace as they mourned Thomas death.

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Dina Marrazzo, administrator of the page, said Thomas is buried not far from her own father's grave at Pinelawn Cemetery, so she knew she had to visit him, as well.

Of the spot where Thomas was laid to rest, Marrazzo said: "It’s a warm and loving place, filled with children — so many stuffed animals and toys with beautifully decorated headstones. It’s so sad to see all the flowers, angels and toy cars that have been left for Thomas."

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Thomas’ tragedy broke her heart, Marrazzo said. "When I celebrate Jesus’ birthday with him, it brings me peace, knowing he is at peace."

Valva, along with his then-fianceé Angela Pollina — who will have a separate trial, which is slated to begin in February — were arrested Jan. 24, 2020, and charged with second-degree murder and four counts of endangering the welfare of a child.

Each faced 25 years to life in prison.Thomas and his older brother, both autistic, lived in a "house of horrors," according to Assistant District Attorney Kerriann Kelly. When he died, Thomas' body temperature was 76.1 degrees, 20 degrees lower than normal.

Gino Cali, the father of one of Pollina's daughters, also visited Thomas' grave, and wanted to invite others, who might also want to show their support and love, Marrazzo said. "Of course, it’s difficult on Christmas Eve, but this was also able to bring happiness and joy to those who also hold him and this horrific case close to their hearts."

She added: "I will forever visit Thomas, be his voice," Marrazzo said.

Witnesses, including teachers at Thomas' school, sobbed as they recounted seeing Thomas and his brother starving, cold, with bruises and scratches, and eating crumbs from the floor. The boys were sent to school in urine-cloaked clothing and pullups, they said.

Zubko-Valva pleaded for help on her Twitter page before her son died. In 2020, she filed a $200 million wrongful death suit. In June, a judge ruled that portions of the $200 million lawsuit can move forward, a judge ruled.

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