Grandparent Alienation the desecration of Family

From the very moment I was told that I was going to be a grandmother I jumped for joy, I ran around the room in circles , I yelled and screamed in the most delightful way I'm going to be a GRANDMOM!

As I witnessed my granddaughter's birth I shed tears of joy for the future that would be miraculous!

From the very beginning OUR Bond was obvious and as it grew it became one of the most unique strongest bonds between a grandmother and a granddaughter that ever was. I considered it a silent Bond.

It became more and more apparent that this child had been being abused in the most Insidious ways as this child would video chat me five times a day and I literally viewed the horrors she endured and can't even imagine when that phone was clicked off her hellish nightmare.

In order for us to remain in each other's lives that poor child flew under the radar and I buffered and acted as if I didn't know anything was happening.

For the 8 years we were together our hearts intertwined as one and I could feel her. I could feel her pain her anxiety, her silent fears when we were not together.

The very last night we were together she finally opened up to me as we laid in my bed Christmas night 2022.

This poor child could no longer hold it in nor hide it even with the threats of death if she ever told anybody... that baby told her grandmom things you don't want to hear, but you listen and you soothe and you hold her so tight and you both cry until the child is relaxed enough within the arms of the only person she truly trusted loved and knew who loved her back and falls asleep.

For all the years this precious Soul has been alive there was always something amiss. In Rapid Fire time her father grew more and more violent and her mother -when she entered the room you would feel such fear and literally walked on eggshells because of the tension in the air that you could not pinpoint, but you knew there was something so wrong and unsettling.

However, since the mother was so quiet and soft-spoken nobody would ever question what deep dark evil truly is and the mask that disguised the most evil ABERRATION that somehow walked the earth.

The only way to survive such evil was to conform and carefully try and work your way around such cryptic odd manipulative tactics and constantly apologize or explain things that were in her mind blame shifting these confusing accusations as if I was the cause of action when in reality these were the things she was destroying that helpless little girl with, ever so subtly in her own psychotic psychologically damaging forms of hidden abuse to the outside world.

My most terrifying silent fears began to piece together after 10 years of being "in it." And what I mean by being in it is you are in a psychological warfare with a malignant covert narcissist- one of the deadliest, deceitful, manipulative, maniacal entity, solely existing off of the destruction of the lives around it. After receiving some very volatile accusational emails which, again, were very cryptic like some sort of anagram and I started to continue to try and buffer and apologize but I ended up striking back and confronting this personality type cluster B which is equal to Ted Bundy, BTK, Jeffrey Dahmer and Charles Manson.

I Have never been so petrified in my life knowing my precious grandchild was in the clutches of this monster who also turned her father, who was my son into some subhuman type. I mean his eyes are deep holes, deep dark black holes and he physically and verbally tortures this child to the point Her full body goes into convulsions if she spills one drop of water on the floor and her lips are quivering and repeat my Daddy's going to kill me my Daddy's going to kill me!!!

This once most joyous, full of life, brilliant, imaginative, always full of excitement is no longer. She displayed such mental decline the very last time I spoke with her which was June 2024 and that was the last time we will ever get to speak and this poor baby was in such fear standing like a soldier yet again, against a white wall because she is not allowed on furniture or to watch TV.

She is an invisible child under the guise of "homeschooling" in which there are no peers or teachers, making her horrendous abuse forever unnoticed because there is zero people watching this child or checking up on this child. I was her only person, her lifeline.

And as her mother is upstairs all day (her teacher) this poor baby has been so crippled she has to ask for everything so her fear to ask for food when she's very very hungry she says she has the most critical decision to go up and remind her mommy to feed her or starve. I watched her through video chat procrastinate tiptoe up the steps and her mother's door was halfway open and the child said "the alarm went off for me to remind you to feed me" and the door slamned so hard in her face that poor baby fell four feet back and robotically went back to that hard chair she's plopped in all day homeschooling herself by watching doldrum videos..... and when it's over Mommy Dearest comes down and flicks off her answers.

This is the absolute most tragic destruction of the most beautiful kind-hearted loving, funny -love to be loved love to give love child.

Our Lives are over. Our memories are gone.

This is insane! She's insane! I'm insane! We are separated forever and the grief and the constant Agony and fear and FRIGHT for this child, feeling her anxiety and fear and knowing she was told that her beloved grandmother never wanted to talk or see her again just to see the child suffer her mother inflicted that pain on her and we have been severed forever and it is impossible to survive! This once brilliant child has so much damage done that is irreversible and that malignant covert narcissist Maniac psychopath mother has covered all bases!

CPS is called by other people and they call me accusing me of calling them and endanger the child every time! It is sickening! That baby, that baby needs help!...& of course the police joined forces with the mother that's why I said you can't get past her! She is a self-proclaimed victim and portrays it so perfectly like an actress and then when they're behind closed doors her head literally is spinning around in circles and a narcissistic rage so horrifying & that poor baby's got both the parents going at her!..and I've said it all along to my husband. I said Violet is never going to be the Violet she was supposed to and this is getting worse as she ages.... and what I'm about to say may sound horrible but it's true. She WILL be killed by her father and nobody would blink an eye that's how invisible and isolated this poor innocent hopeless child is!!

She's battered and bruised all over along with the most heartbreaking emotional neglect, constantly belittled and told she's worthless. She feels so unloved and guilty and most likely feels that she deserves the severe extreme over the top corporal punishment abuse!

And her loving parents love pretending she's invisible for 2 weeks... imagine that and the psychological abuse, the gaslighting, the cursing and being violently shaken!

This poor baby is considered the scapegoat. Everything is her fault. And all this poor little baby ever wanted was to be loved.

She's never even had a friend- another child to play with or to just go outside. Nothing!!!!

And a few months ago I just happened to look at old pictures that I had put away and I can't believe I missed the horror, but there is such blunt force bruising all wrapped around her ankles up and down her legs I'm assuming they would just say oh she fell yeah right you would have to get a rock or a weapon to meet this kind of damage.

This poor child for God's sakes!! .. she was always covered head to toe and then she started not changing in front of me.

This is a true real story but a nursery rhyme version.

And sickening enough parents in Pennsylvania have the right to raise their children anyway they please which would be common sense but apparently it includes driving your child insane, causing brain damage, emotionally hurting them and damaging them and making them lonely and sad! Locking them up at night in a dark bedroom on an old bed that hurts. Locking them up everyday never to go outside to the point she is invisible. She is so lonely inside and she wants her grandmom! I was her person and they did that with full intent to harm both of us but the baby that poor child she's never had a childhood for god sakes except when she was at Grandmom's!

She was free to be!! But grandmothers don't matter in Pennsylvania!

Grandparents have zero rights to the grandchildren and this child had me in her life consistently since she was born but gee oh well that poor child's heart was big and full of love and now there's nothing there except just a little tiny black rock... and I was blocked from that sweet baby girl because I knew of the destruction & the most Insidious abuse ever placed upon a Child is going on right this second.

I was severed from this child because the malignant mother knew I knew and literally laid A Narrative of my life without me knowing anything for an entire year she plotted and planned and then the frivolous lawsuits came I went into a cognitive Dissonance for 6 months and then in and out in and out not truly understanding what the hell was going on!

And that poor little baby is smack dab in the middle of it with both of them with full permission to terrorize! abuse!.. and even have her join in and have to laugh at her own abuse in order for her to survive in her own way from the Berks County Police Department CPS and the laws of Pennsylvania!

Signed,

Forever SUFFERING