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Falling in Love ... with Yourself!
Dig deep to find that core center of love within you. That universe exists within you and it's easier to access than you think!

Greetings … This is not a “how to “message. It’s just a wake up call to remind you of the necessity to periodically turn towards yourself and dive into the very core of your love essence.
Listen very carefully to your intuitive right brain. It’s getting your attention and urging you to hit the end of the diving board and go to the deepest, and I mean deepest, love universe. What a place that is! It connects you to the infinite unlimited, timeless, and beautifully indescribable energy of true being. Love is not just a word. It is a primordial fuel for all of existence. Without it, there is no meaning, no being, and no joy in existence.
The moment that you feel and connect to your love energy, you will begin to see certain faces, people and situations. I did say, “connect“. When you connect with the very essence of your being, you are connected to your real self and your real self is all about love.
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You are “Love” …
That’s right! I’ll say it again. You are “Love”. Can I get a witness? Every one of us is capable of drifting away and separating from the love connection. This is why many relationships become very negative and eventually die. That is why I enthusiastically support and recommend that you make it a continual action and ritual to go deep into the love universe.
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Don’t neglect or refuse delving into your love self (Soul). You will regret it and you will suffer. You need to love yourself and others need your love. It’s easy to get lost in your head and, once you get lost, you’ll lose access to your heart and love.
Gerald: the Case for Love …
Gerald was a man who had been separated from love for decades. The word, “love“, was just a word in his head. He was shut off and disconnected from his heart and the love universe. Extensive therapy opened him up over time and he began to let the flow of love come out of his heart and spread to himself and those closest to him.
This was not easy! It took time, patience and commitment. There was a lot of fear and resistance in Gerald’s very being, concerning love. Even though he was incredibly successful in business and the music industry, he was shut down and hurting.
We had to go very slowly and carefully. Opening up required a lot of deep relaxation and shifts of thinking, beliefs and patterns. Tears were shed and insights began to flood his consciousness. He began to feel some love towards his dog and that eventually led to other family members. His senior years were filled with love, joy, bliss and happiness. What a journey! What a trip! Anyone, and that includes you, can climb out of the pit of misery and ascend to a cosmic universe radiating with unending and powerful flows of love.
Make the Shift to Love …
Imagine living in a world radiating from your very being that spreads joy and the essence of love. Or, you can continue to keep whining and complaining about how horrible the world seems. Remember, there are several worlds. Once you make the shift to the love universe, you are in for the ride of your life.
Don’t wait! Every person who takes and makes that dive into the universal love self, will have the desire and the incentive to make little and even great changes, one person at a time. The herd instinct will eventually take over and who knows; life will be a hell of a lot better. Are you ready to join up? Get your diving suit on and then go for it.
Watch Out for Resistance …
Oh no, did that creepy part of your mind just sneak in with a load of negativity and pessimism? Well, maybe not …
However, there is the dark side. The shadow knows. But sometimes you’ve got to let the dog out of the kennel, to run free and have fun and love just being.
Get Ready … Power UP!
There is a universal Archetype called, “the world’s greatest lover”. You may have it or you may not. Get ready. Power up. Don’t let anything, anyone or even yourself stop you from being the “world’s greatest lover”. That’s how we roll, baby. The world is waiting for you. Get your legs moving otherwise we’ll have to schlep and drag you along. You and everyone else have the power to tap into and release the love energy that fills and fuels the entire universe.
You dig what I’m saying? If you tap into and dive into that mountain of love, tomorrow will be a new day. OK. You can be somewhat aware of a little negativity. Use that negativity to fuel you up and get you moving in and with love. I can hear you singing and see you dancing with a little bit of hope.
Go, baby GO!
Love, Dr. Paul
Paul J. Hannig, Ph.D. LMFT * PsychotherapyHELP.com * Invested in creating GREAT People * 818-882-7404