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The #1 Estate Planning Mistake New Jersey Parents Make (Without Realizing It)

Most parents think they're protected—but this overlooked mistake can leave kids vulnerable in an emergency.

If you ask most parents whether their children are protected if something happens to them, the answer is almost always:

“Of course—my family would step in.”

But here’s the truth:
Most New Jersey parents are relying on assumptions, not legal protection.

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The #1 mistake parents make is believing that guardianship is automatic.
It isn’t.

Without the right documents:

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  • Family members may have no legal authority to take custody
  • Hospitals cannot release information to them
  • Schools cannot release your child
  • Courts—not you—decide who steps in
  • Temporary strangers may become involved until a judge sorts things out

It’s a terrifying thought, but it’s a reality many families face every year.

This isn’t about fear—it’s about empowerment.
Parents deserve to know the truth and the steps they can take to protect their kids with clarity and confidence.

This holiday season, I’m hosting a free online webinar to help Ocean County parents learn how to avoid this common mistake and secure a safety plan for their children.

Free Holiday Webinar: “Future-Proof Your Family This Season”
A short, practical session for busy parents who want peace of mind.

Register here: Holiday-Ready Parent Protection Webinar

Give your children the protection they deserve—not someday, but now.

Eldonie S. Mason, Esq., Barnegat Resident & Local Attorney Helping Families Protect What Matters Most

Attorney Advertising. For Educational Purposes Only. Not Legal Advice.

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