Future-Proof Friday: 5 Things Every Ocean County Parent Should Review Before the Weekend

As we head into the weekend, here’s a quick truth I’ve learned helping families across Ocean County:

Most parents assume everything is “fine”… until life proves otherwise.

Future-Proof Friday is your gentle weekly reminder to protect your kids, your home, and your peace of mind — one small step at a time.

Here are five things you can review today that make a real difference:

1. Who could legally take care of your children in an emergency?

If the answer is “I’m not sure,” that’s your sign to revisit your guardianship decisions.
A plan gives your kids immediate stability if something unexpected happens.

2. Do you have updated decision-makers?

Medical power of attorney, financial power of attorney, and emergency contacts:
If the people listed were chosen years ago, or relationships have changed, it’s time to refresh.

3. Are your beneficiaries correct?

Old employer plans, outdated life insurance, or incorrect names can completely derail your intentions. Reviewing them can take five minutes — fixing mistakes later can take months.

4. Do the right people know where your essential documents are?

If only you know where everything is stored, that’s a risk. Your spouse, chosen guardian, or emergency decision-maker should know where to find help immediately.

5. Have you had “the talk” with your spouse or co-parent?

Not the dramatic talk — the practical one:

• What would happen if something happened to either of you?
• Who handles what?
• What’s our plan for the kids?

It’s a short conversation that saves hours of confusion during a crisis.

Small steps = big protection.

Use today to choose one item from the list and get it done before Monday. Your future self — and your kids — will thank you.

— Eldonie S. Mason, Esq., Barnegat Resident & Local Attorney Helping Families Protect What Matters Most

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